Little sissy boy's who find themselves looking at the bulge in a mans pants and salivating all over themselves as they fantasize about tasting and placing their mouths over it are in luck.... I can stuff your mouth full of some large black cock and watch you breath through your ears while I give you a reason to struggle against my knees pinning your arms down and I feed you 8 or more inches of My strap-on.

Struggle and scream little boy as you get the pleasure of wrapping your thin little lips around My big black cock and watch them stifled behind the gag reflex. Your hands and arms strain against the weight of my body baring down on your limbs so that your fighting does nothing but exhaust you.

Do a good job little cocksucker and you will get rewarded. Be an eager and motivated little boy and you may find yourself impaled on the same apparatus while you struggle to get away and only finding yourself milked to completion with no orgasm to fulfill and tantalize your body.

What a wonderful vision that was to wake up to. Now, maybe one of you boys would find it in your hearts to make that phone call to help Me enjoy the reality of it. Make that call NOW!

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I just recently noticed that the Las Vegas Fetish and Fantasy Ball has another new venue opening up this year. Tampa, watch out, here we come!

I haven't missed by one ball in almost 10 years of attending it. It's random venues and attempts to have some extended events have always had troubles (Katrina squashed the New Orleans venture) but this time, I am whole heartedly excited about seeing Tampa, Florida get this crazy crowd in a bit more risque fashion than what they bargained for!

Las Vegas has definitely placed itself in a the "non-Sin City" category as the restrictions for dress, attire and activities have affected and slowly started to take the Party-Pooper syndrome to a whole new high. It seems though, that Tampa has not felt the flamboyant crowds that dawn anonymity masks and come out to show more skin than most Nip and Tuck doctors would see in a lifetime. I imagine that after this year, they too will start to enhance their decency laws and city statutes just like Vegas did.

The entertainment that visits our Vegas Ball will also be attending the Tampa Ball, giving a mirror image for what fun and fetish provides to the Sin City with some added new faces of Gothic, morbid and unusual entertainment. I will be excited to see what happens and will be excited to see more cohorts in crime weather they just be voyeurs, fetish lovers, submissive souls or Dominate Diva's.

To check out more about the dates, and information, check out the website at: www.halloweenball.com

Meanwhile, to find out if I will be in attendance check back at my site at: www.ladyvelvetnoir.com

Maybe one or two of my lucky callers will be allowed to escort me through the halls of revelers and partiers!

Sometimes you just need that break in the week that breaks up the first part of it and the last part. I found My break. In fact, think I broke My new toy!

Needing to curb the craving of a red ass high in the air begging for some more strikes of My whip, I dressed myself in my Sunday best. Although I can't imagine that my Sunday best would be allowed in any church courtyard. I could just picture the Reverend staring down my cleavage and his wife mumbling 'Harlot' under her breath from the front pew as the bulg in her husbands pants continued to grow. Knowing she had no control over it, and that he would keep the sermon short for obvious reasons was shear delight in My eyes. But that would be another fun endeavor....

I dressed in my best and strutted out to another Hole-in-the-Wall pub on the opposite side of town. I was sure that I wouldn't bump into anyone that knew me there, and if it was a dark enough bar, not many would even know the torment that I was thinking with a sly and evil look on my face.

I drove across town plotting, planning and smiling the entire way. I grew more excited knowing that some poor sap would end up at My hands that night and he wouldn't be expecting that his ego would get todded down a touch.

Arriving at a grungy looking shack that sat back off the street, I closed, locked up the car, and in turn clacked My way into the Bar in my 4" stilletos and Cuban silk stalkings. The back light that escorted me into this dank bar kept many from seeing my details and most didn't pay much heed until I walked past and My perfume emanated into the room. I actually found this quite amusing, considering I was not wearing a typical perfume. I enjoy oils and so it was a custom blend that was given to Me by one of My favorite boy toys (thank you bitchboy I still wear it*winks*).

Heads turned and they noise in the room died down as their eyes adjusted to the dim lighting and My heels continued to clack across the cement floor to a stool at the back ind of the bar. I knew, as this is a typical place, that before I sat down, the bartender was providing me with a drink courtesy of someone at the bar or even themselves.

"Merlot," I requested.

I lit up a cigarette and watched the TV in front of Me, complete dis concerned with what was actually on it. It took only about 5 minutes before I was approached. I smelled the leather before it even got to Me and his boots thudded against the floor cause the vibration to tantalize Me through the bar stool.

"You look a bit out of place young lady," a deep voice uttered as he took seat next to Me.

I didn't turn My head, but answered with My quippy sense of humor, "and you look over dressed. But if you were undressed, you be much more out of place here than you would be in My chambers."

Taking a long draw on my cigarette and sipping My wine, I heard him chuckle to himself. "A smart woman who knows what she wants, intriguing and unusual."

I looked over and give him a quirky sly grin. "You have NO idea," and returned to watching what played in front of me on the TV.

"Can I buy You a drink, " he asked.

"No," I snapped.

His shocked looked was amusing and in turn the hand that ran free from My cigarette found his crotch and squeezed aggressively. He jumped and I chuckled keeping a firm hold on the family jewels. "You can follow Me though."

"Where to?" he asked.

"Either you will or you won't. If you do, then know I will turn your world upside down, if you don't know that you will always question yourself and wonder what you missed."

I crushed out my cigarette, and sipped down the rest of the wine. I chuckled to myself and looked at My watch. I thought to Myself, "15 minutes, not a bad record for getting a blind puppy dog to follow Me to My heaven and their hell."

Grabbing my hand bag and sliding from the stool, My heels started down the aisle and behind me, the boots of a biker and His leather jacket followed very close behind Me to the parking lot. I knew I had what I needed to curb the hunger and the craving to get Me through the rest of the week.

A new toy to play with, and the evening had just started.

There are times when I truly feel that there is a point in time when things are relative. This being definitely one of them. A friend of mine constantly states:

"Perception is reality to those who perceive it."

Couldn't be more truthful.

So this morning as I was reading and doing some research the age old questions was approached: IS Phone Sex or Cyber Sex the same as cheating?

Truthfully, I can't answer that for everyone. For me, no, it's not. But in truth, the idea that it is cheating is a very real problem for many couples as the internet makes it easier to anonymously access and feed their fetishes. Some may see this behavior as a way of feeding sexual addiction, but at the same time, you have to see things on the realm that what he is doing is safe, secure and healthy. For instance, if he were to identify that he had had a real time encounter, my biggest concern would be regarding the disease factor. At least over the internet, and over a phone, you KNOW that he is being careful about disease and considering your safety and factor as well.

Second, sometimes men (and I know this because I am a real time Domme and phone sex operator in the business for 10+ years) need an outlet that is more than what they feel comfortable with telling someone they love. For instance, maybe he has a fantasy regarding Dominating a woman or even submitting to one, where they feel the activities are too extreme to follow through in real life but will 'explode' if they don't have some kind of outlet. The only way to overcome this ideal is to open up and possibly have some of those taboo discussions with him/her in order to open the gates to more honesty and unreserved conversations. It is completely natural to have these fantasies, and only some will act on them. Some, in turn, feel that the only way to indulge is to do so online or over a phone. Either way, it is a conversation that they are probably having difficulties addressing with you, OR have tried to and found it too un-fulfilling because their partner is not willing to even address it.

On the flip side, Dominating men struggle with the ethical ideal of having that sadistic side to them and know or feel that it is inappropriate to indulge in those tendencies. The ONLY time I feel it is appropriate in a real time environment is when the adults involved are consensual and ONLY then. I do not condone abuse nor do I support it whether it be mental, physical or emotional. However, if done correctly, these types of relationships are the most intense, loving and secure relationships than any 'normal' (by society standards) I have ever seen, basing it on a 100% honesty and trust and communication.

Addicts are those who have a tendency to show the following signs:

1. Their addiction is costing them more than they can spend. Whether it be financially, time, or even emotional standing, it does begin to affect all three severely.
2. Addicts will risk ANYTHING to feed their addiction, including health, career, education and all types of relationships;
3. Addicts typically are insistent on feeding their addiction more and more. Meaning that if they started online and after years are just indulging online or over the phone more than likely they will not pursue something in real time. Addicts are normally not content with just online or phone materials to feed their addiction.

Remember, the safety that they feel they have with the World Wide Web or just a phone call is real. They can anonymously confess, enact or just plain have an ear that will listen safely and securely. Don't judge to harshly what your boyfriend (and what Gillian) is doing. Their might be something lacking (or not) in their lives that they are too embarrassed to convey to their partners. If that is the case, then open the gate for him. Give him just a bit of tolerance and see if you can't be the focus of his fantasies by doing so.

I am not saying accept their behavior as ultimately you have to do what is right for you. 10 years ago if you had asked me if I would be doing this, I too would baulked at the idea, but since then, I do feel I have not offered a service to those who need a safe way to express themselves, but I have found that become an open minded individual and non-judgmental about people's taboos (unless it involves innocence of children and animals) has made my life less stressful and I continue to learn a great deal about people, life and human nature.

As a quick note:
If you are craving what you need and online is enough, great, however, if it is not, PLEASE be sure that you find a local group and mentoring situation that makes your search a safe, sane and consensual one. There are far too many predators out there.

Here are some Community resources that might be of interest to you:

http://www.pakratpress.com/sinergy/comunity/groups.htm

http://www.fetbot.com/Links/Lifestyle/Organizations/

http://www.the-crucible.com/groups.htm

I am sure that there are many more good resources out there, so please feel free to send me your resource so I can ad it to my ever growing list of SSC/RACK links.

Lady Velvet Noir

For more information on me, please visit me at www.LadyVelvetNoir.com

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As promised, I have added a new members area to the infinite fun one Adult can have online on one site. Filled with content from a well known real time Dominate and producer of fetish films that not only state extreme, but also give some fun to the play time, Dr. Kink (aka Master Leonard.) Not only can you sneak a peak to see some of his films in My membership area, I also give you a place to buy the whole film and see it from start to finish with a Video On Demand section. I have priced memberships to your liking were a 1 month is cheap but a 3 month is even cheaper!

Have any films that you haven’t seen? Maybe some fetishes? I will do my best to line up the camera crew and a few good models very soon to offer a rounded out feature of new video and galleries that fit your liking. You should be seeing some good CBT films, spanking and whipping films, male bondage and more in the future. Just remember, you are probably not going to see these intimate insights to these films anywhere else unless you buy the film yourself through the producers.

Unfortunately, we have also lost a great publishing and notification portion of our site. My Fem-Dom Wikizine is no longer in publication due to a change in the Zimbio’s publication policy. It was a great way to educate those out there and so I hope to be finding a new way to produce a newsletter/e-magazine very soon!

Stay tuned as there are so many more things cumming your direction!

Lady V

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